Web UI: music channel, posted-to-Matrix glow, redesigned index, AVIF thumbnails

- Add music as a fourth channel (nav + theme color)
- Glowing themed border on cards that have been posted to Matrix
- Replace per-channel index sections with: "Pete just posted" strip,
  channel dashboard (last post, 24h count, totals), unified latest feed
- /img proxy: SSRF-guarded thumbnail re-encoder that resizes to 800px
  and runs avifenc -q 45, cached under data/img-cache

go.sum

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