Add optional Authentik (OIDC) sign-in with server-side preference sync

Signed-in users get their preferences (hidden feeds, weather location,
weather toggle) stored server-side keyed by their OIDC subject and synced
across devices. Anonymous visitors keep using browser localStorage, so the
site stays public. First sign-in migrates existing localStorage prefs up.

- config: [web.auth] section (issuer, client_id/secret, redirect, session_secret)
- storage: user_preferences table + Get/PutUserPrefs
- web/auth: OIDC code flow, HMAC-signed session cookie, CSRF state + nonce
- web/prefs_api: GET/PUT /api/preferences (auth-gated, 64KB cap)
- frontend: prefs.js sync layer seeds localStorage from server, pushes on write
- header: sign-in / account control

OIDC discovery is non-fatal at boot: if Authentik is down, Pete serves
anonymously rather than refusing to start.

internal/web/static/js/settings.js

@@ -13,6 +13,7 @@
   }
   function save(set) {
     try { localStorage.setItem(KEY, JSON.stringify(set)); } catch (e) {}
+    if (window.PetePrefs) window.PetePrefs.push();
   }
 
   var disabled = load();